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Are Becoming One Flesh

Our Love Story

Timmy's Take:
This story starts with a friend request on Facebook. Maggie follows the impulse of this man (me) being her husband and on the other side a man that doesn't care about having a wife anymore. After six years of waiting on the most high for a wife, having faith, prayers, crying in the lonely nights, failures in dating, rejection after rejection, and a failed courtship attempt, I was completely done. I accepted that there wasn't anyone suitable at the moment; even when Maggie added me, I had no regard towards her or ANY woman in any way. With friend requests piling up, dating past 10 years ago, I still decided to confirm the same day, and the rest was history. After two months of being Facebook friends, Maggie finally reached out to me via a comment on a video I released pertaining to a topic Maggie was curious about: The biblical Israelites. It opened up an opportunity for fruitful dialogue where I could fully explain, give scripture, and even show her an example of a man who acknowledges that we are the Israelites, yet walks in the fruits of the spirit. This would be the moment where I would say Maggie “barged into my life”. This turned into Maggie asking me questions about the bible and the things she was studying. We eventually had a moment to meet each other in person through a T-shirt sale for my clothing brand, “God’s Will Clothing Company LLC”. I remember the nervous feeling I had pulling up to her house, and messaging her through Facebook (since I didn’t have her number yet). As she walked out, I thought it was actually cool that she came out in her gardening clothes. I was already familiar with her gardening so I loved seeing her natural, doing something she loved unashamed when she could’ve done what most women would do and just changed. I really appreciated that more than I have even expressed to her. She didn’t notice, but when I first spoke I slurred a little in my speech when I’m usually confident. After I gave her the T-shirt, we had an extremely brief exchange that was over in less than a minute. I remember getting in the car and saying “That was it?“. I thought it would be more but those few minutes were so meaningful, that words were not needed, it was felt. She was my first customer which was cool! It showed me that she truly supports what I do and how I strive to give glory to the Father in it all. I eventually opened the door for Maggie to ask whatever biblical questions she had. Over an almost two months span we solely messaged on Facebook even up until our second time meeting at a community church event I was performing at. She came to support and that’s when I asked myself “Is this my wife?”. I remember she was outside and I was inside preparing for the show, when I walked outside it felt like a movie (you know the exaggerated slow motion scenes where their hair is blowing in the wind? That kind of moment!) I literally saw no one else but her. She stood out to me so much; in that moment, I gazed upon the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. Our short exchange showed me a lot more than I asked for. We STILL didn’t have each other’s number at this point (lol), but we planned to meet up the next day, so that’s when I finally asked for it via Facebook messenger. I prayed like Moses at the edge of the Red Sea before meeting with her. In that deep prayer, I asked once again “Is this my wife?” The time we spent together was full of life. We spoke about not everything, but ERRTHANG! At that moment, I believed that this was my wife. We ended our time with a beautiful prayer on both ends, and a kiss on the hand. From day one of that intentional meeting, we both knew the most high brought this together. Eventually, I proposed that we pray every day early on and we have been doing so ever since until this day! That same month we both agreed to do courtship because we don’t agree with being “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” but to get to know each other exclusively in a pure way compared to western society. The goal was to be abstinent until marriage, to have intentional conversation, and to know every detail about each other's lives. It started with these conversation cards “equally yoked - family and faith”. That's when we knew we were equally yoked. Months before proposing, I heard a faint inner voice saying, “this is her” or “this is your wife”. I prayed so much about it until I eventually proposed to Maggie without a ring in December 2025. I was reluctant because I was in a bad place financially, and traditionally, people propose with the ring. I believed me and Maggie’s love was deeper than these material possessions, and yes, she definitely said yes (I mean how could she not!), this is why we are here right now. Since then, Maggie and I have been having deeper conversations about marriage, raising children, being witnesses, ministry, fasting and prayer, studying the word, and preparing for what’s to come.
Maggie's Take:
When I first saw Timmy come across the people you may know section of my Facebook page, I felt something deep in my spirit. I was so deeply focused on my identity in Christ and investing in my relationship with the Most High. I had no plans on meeting someone new, so I questioned why I was feeling this and decided not to look at his page. This happened twice more and on the third time, I decided to click on his page and check it out. The first thing I noticed was that my sister Saleemah was a mutual friend. The next thing I say was that he had a strong relationship with the Most High and that he was a preacher. I reached out to Saleemah and we ended up meeting with each other. I immediately asked her about Timmy and she mentioned that they’ve known each other since they were young. She told me about his character and his ways that she was familiar with, then I shared with her the deep rooted feeling in my spirit each time I saw him. Her and I laughed and said Timmy was going to be my husband, then I requested him. Timmy and I didn’t talk at first but I quickly became one of his supporters.
I became a supporter of his business, God’s Will Clothing Company as I bought a T-shirt. We set up a date for him to bring me the T-shirt and once I knew he was arriving soon, I began to have thoughts that I’d never had before. See, one thing about me is that I never felt the need to live according to anyone else’s standard. I didn’t dress like others, I didn’t act like others, and I didn’t do the things others did, and I had always been okay with that. This time was different. I began to consider what I was wearing and how I was presenting myself like never before. On this particular day, I was tending to my garden, I was in a T-shirt and sweatpants, I was filthy from gardening, my finger nails were wedged with dirt, and my hair was messy. As I learned he was on the way I considered changing my clothes, scrubbing my nails, and fixing my hair, but the Holy Spirit quickly put me in my place by reminding me that I’ve never cared about what others thought about me in these ways. I always believed that people like each other for who they are and not how they looked, so I didn’t freshen up. Instead, I presented exactly how I looked as I was having these thoughts without changing a thing. When he came, we had a very brief exchange and a quick hug, then we carried on with our day. My stomach was fluttering and I reflected over and over again on the moment I had with a man who had no clue that the Holy Spirit already informed me about him.
I became a supporter of his ministry as I watched each video carefully and fully engaged. Timmy happened to speak on something I was researching and reading the word about in one of his videos, which was about our identity as Israelites. I commented reluctantly because I watched a different video of his where he mentioned that he doesn’t engage with women, he doesn’t react to women’s posts or comment on them, and he pretty much said that he is reluctant to engage with women at all based on his experiences and preparing himself for a wife. Despite knowing that he was completely closed off, I commented on the Israelite identity video anyways because I was genuinely seeking and he seemed to be someone who may be able to answer the questions that I had at the time, which he did! And, he answered my questions thoroughly backed by scripture, knowledge, and experience. This opened up the lines of communication between us even though my intention was just to gain clarity in this exchange. This is where Timmy would say that I “barged into his life”! The conversation eventually went from the comments section to our inboxes because it got really deep and personal.
He ended up inviting me to a family event that his church was having and I quickly accepted the invitation. On this day we shared moments in time where it seemed no one else existed, yet we were surrounded by people laughing, children playing, and music in the background.This was a special and confirming day not just for me, but for him as well. Timmy asked if I’d be interested in meeting in person at a public place for fellowship and he prompted me to bring my Bible. The next day after the church event we met at Hoyt lake and we spoke on so many things that I can’t recount them here. We spoke on the word, family, friends, values, and principles. We laughed so much that day and it ended with Timmy giving me an appropriate and brief hug then kissing me on my hand. We both knew in that moment that the Most High brought us together. And yes, I consider this the first day of our relationship because we never stopped building from that day forward.
Timmy and I prayed for each other via messenger before we ever met at Hoyt lake and now we pray together every morning and night. We spent countless hours understanding each other’s faith, families, visions for life, marriage, parenting, and so much more. I think we’ve spoken more deeply than some have in 10 years of marriage. We truly learned the inner workings of each other's minds, experiences, and traumas. We took the time to learn what healing looked like and what brought us to where we were each step of the way. We spoke scripture over each others lives regularly, we studied the word together, and we’ve had conversations that could have lasted forever. We were both honest, transparent, open, and scared, but we kept on going! We moved deeply into moments that will now last us a lifetime. We spent much time reflecting on the continual confirmation we had received from the Most High that was present from the very beginning and now there is not a doubt in our minds that we were made for each other and finally met in the perfect timing of the Most High.
The timing was perfect because the Most High has prepared Timmy to meet me for 6 years. He shared with me letters that he had written about his future wife, relentless hours in prayer about his future wife, tears shed about his future wife, and the hope that he always had for his future wife. All the while the Most High had been preparing me to be a wife for 3 years. The Most High spent 3 years reshaping my identity, disconnecting my trauma from concepts of love, renewing my mind, and pressing me into the mold of His perfect design. Looking back and knowing what I know now, I can see the impact of the prayers that he prayed before ever meeting me in my life today. And with all of that said, I now know that the very first time I saw his face and felt that feeling deep in my spirit was not a mistaken understanding of emotions, but a moment that the Holy Spirit allowed me to be alerted to what was to come, which is what him and I are walking into right now.
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